Grief

Grief

Grief rolls in like tidal waves, crashing against the backdrop of a normal day. Suddenly, nothing feels normal.  Even when we know this decision is for the best, grief comes. Grief comes at the most unexpected times, in moments of joy It rips away all semblance of...
Start Dreaming Big Now!

Start Dreaming Big Now!

Having a vision for what is possible and desirable on the other side of your current relationship is key to surviving your divorce process and especially to thriving later on. In those dark hours of the night, when sleep fails you and your mind is racing, having...
Surprisingly, Your Best Choice

Surprisingly, Your Best Choice

Chances are, if you’re reading this, you’ve already been exploring whether you would be better off on the other side of divorce. I believe the answer is quite simply, “YES!”. Why? Because I know how long it takes for a woman evaluating her decision. If you are...
When “I Do” becomes “I Can’t”

When “I Do” becomes “I Can’t”

Why do we stay in a marriage that no longer serves us? Why do we judge ourselves for wanting more? The answers may surprise you. If you’re a woman in her 40s or 50s, chances are you are experiencing a phenomena I call “The End of Self-Sacrifice”. It’s a state brought...