As I write this blog, I’m so aware that I’d rather be sharing my thoughts in person. I am more of a listener and speaker than a writer. I love being present, face to face, looking you in the eyes and truly seeing you. And speaking only after I’m clear you’ve been heard.
However, within these jottings I hope you find something that resonates, and gives you an idea of my beliefs and process, and some helpful pieces of hope. All of this is designed to help awaken the love, light and joy within you.
Grief rolls in like tidal waves, crashing against the backdrop of a normal day. Suddenly, nothing feels normal. Even when we know this decision is for the best, grief comes. Grief comes at the most unexpected times, in moments of joy It rips away all semblance of...read more
After 17 years of working with women in my transformational coaching business, the question most often asked is, “Why do I have to be the one to do all the work?” This is a question not just about the child-rearing or the housekeeping or the never-ending load of...read more
I love metaphors. There seem to be so many divine inspirations coming to me these days in the form of metaphors. This week my lesson came from my rose bushes, looking less than lovely as massive clusters of dried-up and lifeless blooms clung to the branches. I want to...read more
Having a vision for what is possible and desirable on the other side of your current relationship is key to surviving your divorce process and especially to thriving later on. In those dark hours of the night, when sleep fails you and your mind is racing, having...read more
Chances are, if you’re reading this, you’ve already been exploring whether you would be better off on the other side of divorce. I believe the answer is quite simply, “YES!”. Why? Because I know how long it takes for a woman evaluating her decision. If you are...read more
My vision for all those affected by divorce is that they would choose to lock arms with Presence in order to make this time in their lives a gift - a time when a new perspective came and brought out the best in them. Few people choose this route. Perhaps because few...read more
Why do we stay in a marriage that no longer serves us? Why do we judge ourselves for wanting more? The answers may surprise you. If you’re a woman in her 40s or 50s, chances are you are experiencing a phenomena I call “The End of Self-Sacrifice”. It’s a state brought...read more
The Energy of Divorce Divorce is messy, disruptive and painful. Even when we’re conscious and ‘woke’ individuals, we will be triggered in this process by all our wounds and stories. This is a time of turmoil, when the very earth beneath of feet can feel completely...read more